Suggestive ? I am a 25M and the girl I am interested in is 18F. She was home schooled, and not allowed to date until very recently. While I am fairly sexually experienced (with lots of anal and threesomes under my belt) she has only kissed a couple of guys. I like her, and am willing to compromise my sexual nature. What would you recommend?
I know you?ve been reading my blog for some time, so you know that I tend to recommend that people pair up with people who they have sexual chemistry with. People who they click with, feel something with, and someone who they can enjoy their particular kinks/fetishes and general likes/dislikes with. Of course you run into situations like this where your partner might have more or less experience than you do, and you?re not quite one hundred percent on the same page. What I would recommend is making sure you and this girl are on the same page. You are willing to put your sexual experience on hold, but is she willing to catch up? Is her sexuality something that she is willing to explore? Is the sexual tension and chemistry there? Assuming, of course, that the sex is something that you are interested in having again at some point, since the question is sexual in nature.
I suppose you would have to be patient, and in some sense be willing to teach, or take on the role of the teacher. You would also have to be understanding that as she gains experience with you she may come to find that she doesn?t like the same things that you do. It?s also possible that you?ll explore together, and she?ll come to like exactly the same things that you do.
In some respect, the same risks that come with any partner are there.
I?ve changed my mind on the age one quite a bit because I think people can really judge these things fairly well for themselves. I?ve also evolved in how I feel about relationships, in general. Do you think you?re going to enjoy your time with her? Do you think that you click well, and can move at a pace that suits the both of you? If so, why not? What?s the harm? Enjoy yourselves. But beware of the potential strains that this type of relationship can bring about, and be sure to talk to one another often about what your wants and needs are, and how you can both be satisfied in however the relationship manifests itself. Remember how it can be straining to explore your sexuality as you come across uncomfortable or new things, and be there to grow with her. Whether you?re sexually inexperienced or not, it?s all about making sure that everyone is satisfied.
Source: http://suggestivetongue.com/2012/07/22/sexual-experience-dating/
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